i need to know that it's possible for someone to stay in love forever.
I personally think the only way a long term relationship or marriage will happily work is if both partners are in love the exact same amount.
If the girl is in love with the boy but he isn't he will know he has WAY more control and she'll put more effort into the relationship than he does and he'll push her away to a certain extint and eventually she'll see what's happening and get tired of being a under so much control.
If the boy is in love but the girl isn't it will be pretty much the same situation except the other way around. The girl will play the guy and make him feel like he isn't needed eventually, most of the time guys just don't show how much power women have over them besides the sexual control.
I think that even a slight off balance in this can cause the relationship to go down hill because over time one of them is going to get tired of pretending or the other one will get tired of putting so much effort forth.
i don't even know why i'm rambling about this i just need to realize that love is more complex than what meets the eye but not out of reach.
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